Child Custody in Virginia

Overview of Virginia Custody Law

Virginia custody law is governed by Va. Code Section 20-124.2 and Section 20-124.3, which establish the framework for determining custody and visitation arrangements. Virginia uses the standard terms “custody” and “visitation” and directs courts to make all decisions based on the best interests of the child. The state does not favor one parent over the other based on gender or any other characteristic.

Virginia courts have broad discretion to craft custody arrangements that fit the specific circumstances of each family. The law emphasizes maintaining frequent and continuing contact between the child and both parents, provided that doing so serves the child’s best interests.

Types of Custody in Virginia

Virginia recognizes both legal and physical custody, each of which may be awarded on a sole or joint basis:

• Joint Legal Custody — Both parents share the responsibility for making major decisions about the child’s education, health care, and religious upbringing. Joint legal custody requires a reasonable ability to communicate and cooperate.
• Sole Legal Custody — One parent holds the exclusive right to make major decisions for the child.
• Joint Physical Custody — The child resides with each parent for significant periods. This does not require an equal time split but does contemplate meaningful residential time with both parents.
• Sole Physical Custody — The child lives primarily with one parent, and the other parent has visitation rights.

For a broader explanation of custody types, see our guide on child custody laws explained.

Best Interests Factors

Under Va. Code Section 20-124.3, Virginia courts evaluate 10 factors when determining the best interests of the child:

• The age, physical and mental condition of the child, giving due consideration to the child’s changing developmental needs
• The age, physical and mental condition of each parent
• The relationship existing between each parent and each child, giving due consideration to the positive involvement with the child’s life and the ability to accurately assess and meet the child’s emotional, intellectual, and physical needs
• The needs of the child, giving due consideration to other important relationships of the child, including siblings, peers, and extended family
• The role that each parent has played and will play in the future in the upbringing and care of the child
• The propensity of each parent to actively support the child’s contact and relationship with the other parent
• The relative willingness and demonstrated ability of each parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child
• The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of reasonable intelligence, understanding, age, and experience to express such a preference
• Any history of family abuse
• Such other factors as the court deems necessary and proper to the determination

Custody Presumptions

Virginia does not have a statutory presumption in favor of joint custody or sole custody. The court examines each case individually under the best interest factors. While Virginia law expresses a policy preference for ensuring that both parents maintain a meaningful role in the child’s life, this policy preference does not rise to the level of a legal presumption that controls the outcome.

Child’s Preference

Virginia does not set a specific age at which a child may express a custody preference. The statute allows the court to consider “the reasonable preference of the child” if the child has sufficient intelligence, understanding, age, and experience to form a meaningful opinion. Older and more mature children generally receive greater weight, but the court retains full discretion and will evaluate whether the child’s preference reflects genuine reasoning. For more on how courts weigh these considerations, see our guide on how child custody is determined.

Mediation in Virginia

Virginia does not mandate mediation statewide for all custody cases. However, some judicial circuits require mediation as a prerequisite before a contested custody case can proceed to trial. Under Va. Code Section 20-124.4, the court may refer the parties to mediation at its discretion. In circuits where mediation is required, parties must participate in good faith, though they are not obligated to reach an agreement. If mediation does not resolve the dispute, the case proceeds to a hearing.

Relocation Rules

Virginia does not have a single comprehensive relocation statute. When a parent seeks to move with the child, the relocating parent must typically notify the other parent in advance. If the parents cannot agree, the non-moving parent may file a motion to modify custody. The court evaluates the proposed relocation under the same best interest factors, considering the reason for the move, the impact on the child’s relationships, the quality of life in the new location, and whether a workable visitation schedule can be maintained.

The court may also consider whether the relocating parent acted in good faith or whether the move is motivated by a desire to interfere with the other parent’s relationship with the child.

Modification of Custody Orders

To modify an existing custody order in Virginia, the parent seeking the change must show that there has been a material change in circumstances since the last order was entered and that the modification would serve the child’s best interests. Common grounds include a change in a parent’s living situation, concerns about the child’s safety or welfare, a parent’s relocation, or a significant shift in the child’s needs as they grow older.

The court applies the same best interest factors used in the original custody determination when evaluating a modification request.

When to Seek Legal Help

Virginia custody law gives courts considerable discretion in crafting arrangements, and the process can vary meaningfully between judicial circuits — particularly regarding mediation requirements and procedural rules. If you are facing a contested custody matter, a relocation dispute, or a modification request, working with a Virginia family law attorney can help you navigate the process effectively. Consider scheduling a free consultation to discuss your situation.